Is your teenager struggling with disordered eating, body image issues, or dangerous weight control behaviors? Eating disorders during adolescence can be life-threatening and require immediate professional intervention. You don't have to navigate this alone - specialized support is available to help your family through recovery.
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You used to love watching your teenager enjoy life - sports, friends, family dinners. But somewhere along the way, food became complicated. Maybe you've noticed dramatic weight changes, secretive eating behaviors, or an obsession with "healthy" eating that's anything but. Perhaps your teen from Toronto is exercising compulsively, or your child in Ottawa is avoiding family meals, or your teenager in Hamilton seems to be disappearing before your eyes.
This isn't typical teenage behavior or "just a phase." Eating disorders have the highest mortality rate of any mental health condition, and they're increasingly common among Ontario teenagers. The combination of social media pressures, academic stress, peer relationships, and the normal challenges of adolescent development creates a perfect storm for disordered eating to take hold.
The most frightening part? Eating disorders are often invisible at first. Your teenager might maintain normal weight with bulimia, or their restrictive eating might be praised as "healthy." By the time physical symptoms appear, the eating disorder has often been entrenched for months or even years. But here's what you need to know: eating disorders are treatable, and early intervention saves lives.
Teen eating disorders don't happen in isolation - they develop during a time when your teenager is navigating massive physical, emotional, and social changes. The adolescent brain is still developing, particularly areas responsible for decision-making and emotional regulation. This makes teens more vulnerable to rigid thinking patterns and less able to recognize when eating behaviors become dangerous.
During puberty, rapid physical changes can trigger body dissatisfaction and comparison with peers or social media ideals. Your teen might feel like their body is betraying them, leading them to attempt control through food, exercise, or weight manipulation. The development of abstract thinking allows teenagers to create complex rules about food and eating that can quickly become obsessive.
Ontario teenagers face specific pressures that can contribute to eating disorder development. The competitive academic environment in cities like Toronto and Ottawa creates high-achieving teens who often struggle with perfectionism. Social media exposure is constant, presenting unrealistic body standards and "lifestyle" content that promotes diet culture and unhealthy relationships with food.
The diversity of Ontario also means teens from different cultural backgrounds may face unique pressures around body image, family expectations, and food traditions. Some cultures emphasize thinness or specific body types, while others may have complex relationships with food that can be confusing for developing teenagers trying to find their identity.
When your teenager restricts food, their brain interprets this as starvation, triggering primitive survival mechanisms that make rational thinking about food nearly impossible. Malnutrition actually changes brain function, making teens more anxious, obsessive, and unable to see their situation clearly.
This creates a vicious cycle: eating disorder behaviors impair brain function, impaired brain function makes it harder to make healthy choices, and the cycle intensifies. Many parents describe feeling like they're "losing" their teenager to the eating disorder - and in many ways, that's exactly what's happening neurologically.
Understanding these factors isn't about blame - it's about recognizing that eating disorders are complex mental health conditions that require professional treatment. With proper support, the vast majority of teenagers can recover fully and develop healthy relationships with food and their bodies.
You might wonder if virtual therapy can really address something as serious as a teen eating disorder. Research consistently shows that virtual therapy is highly effective for eating disorder treatment when combined with family involvement. For families dealing with teen eating disorders, virtual therapy offers unique advantages that can actually enhance treatment outcomes.
"Can we really address something this serious virtually?" Absolutely. Virtual eating disorder therapy allows for immediate intervention during meal times, real-time coaching for challenging situations, and consistent support throughout recovery. Many families find that having professional guidance available in their home environment where eating behaviors actually occur is more helpful than office-based sessions.
"What about medical monitoring and safety?" Virtual therapy works in coordination with your teenager's medical team. We help you understand when medical intervention is needed and maintain communication with healthcare providers to ensure comprehensive care. Virtual sessions don't replace medical monitoring - they enhance the therapeutic support between medical appointments.
"Will my teenager actually engage in virtual sessions?" Most teens are comfortable with virtual platforms and often find them less intimidating than traditional office visits. The privacy and comfort of being in their own space can actually help teenagers open up more freely about their eating disorder experiences.
Virtual therapy allows us to implement proven techniques specifically effective for teen eating disorders, including Family-Based Treatment (FBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Eating Disorders (CBT-E), and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills. These approaches help address both the eating behaviors and underlying emotional factors while supporting the entire family through recovery.
Many families find that having consistent therapeutic support helps them navigate the challenging aspects of eating disorder recovery while maintaining hope and connection. When your family isn't constantly fighting the eating disorder, you can focus on healing, growth, and rebuilding healthy relationships with food and each other.
Characterized by severe food restriction, intense fear of weight gain, and distorted body image. Teenagers with anorexia may engage in excessive exercise, avoid social eating situations, and experience significant weight loss while continuing to perceive themselves as overweight. The physical and psychological impacts can be severe and life-threatening, affecting brain development, bone density, heart function, and overall growth during this critical developmental period.
Signs often include dramatic weight loss, obsession with calories and food labels, wearing baggy clothes to hide weight loss, withdrawal from social activities involving food, and extreme sensitivity to cold. Academic performance may initially improve due to perfectionist tendencies but can later decline as malnutrition affects cognitive function.
Involves cycles of binge eating followed by compensatory behaviors such as vomiting, laxative use, or excessive exercise. Unlike anorexia, teenagers with bulimia often maintain normal weight, making the disorder harder to detect. The secretive nature of these behaviors can lead to significant shame and social isolation, creating a cycle that maintains the disorder.
Physical signs may include swollen glands, dental problems, calluses on knuckles from induced vomiting, and frequent bathroom trips after meals. Emotional indicators include mood swings, depression, anxiety around mealtimes, and preoccupation with body weight and shape despite normal appearance.
The most common eating disorder among teenagers, involving frequent episodes of consuming large amounts of food while feeling out of control, followed by significant distress and guilt. Unlike bulimia, there are no compensatory behaviors, often leading to weight gain and additional emotional challenges including depression and anxiety about body image.
Teenagers may eat rapidly during binge episodes, eat until uncomfortably full, eat large amounts when not physically hungry, and prefer eating alone due to embarrassment. The shame and guilt following binge episodes can lead to further isolation and perpetuation of the cycle.
Includes atypical presentations that don't fully meet criteria for other disorders but are equally serious and requiring professional intervention. This might include night eating syndrome, restrictive eating that doesn't meet anorexia criteria, infrequent purging behaviors, or eating disorders that occur alongside other mental health conditions.
These disorders are just as dangerous as their typical counterparts and require specialized treatment. The fact that they don't fit neatly into diagnostic categories doesn't diminish their severity or the need for professional support.
Early intervention leads to better outcomes. Professional assessment can provide clarity and treatment options.
Get Professional AssessmentEating disorders during adolescence occur during a critical period of physical, emotional, and social development. The teenage brain is still developing, particularly areas responsible for decision-making, impulse control, and emotional regulation, which can make teenagers more vulnerable to eating disorder behaviors and less able to recognize the severity of their symptoms or long-term consequences.
During adolescence, rapid physical changes can trigger body dissatisfaction and comparison with peers or media ideals. The development of abstract thinking allows teenagers to engage in complex reasoning about food, calories, and body image, sometimes leading to rigid rules and perfectionist thinking patterns that maintain eating disorder behaviors.
Academic pressures, social media influences, peer relationships, and family dynamics all contribute to the complex environment in which teen eating disorders develop. The desire for autonomy and identity formation during adolescence can intersect with eating disorder behaviors as teenagers attempt to exert control over their bodies and environment when other areas of life feel unpredictable or overwhelming.
Additionally, the social aspects of eating become more complex during teenage years, with peer pressure around appearance, dating relationships, and social media creating additional stressors around body image and eating behaviors. Understanding these developmental factors is crucial for effective treatment and family support.
Eating disorders during adolescence can have profound and lasting impacts on physical development, brain function, and emotional maturation. Nutritional deficiencies during this critical growth period can affect bone density, height potential, reproductive development, and organ function. Brain development, which continues into the mid-twenties, can be particularly affected by malnutrition.
Socially, eating disorders can isolate teenagers from peer relationships and important developmental experiences. Academic performance may suffer as cognitive function is impacted by malnutrition or the mental preoccupation with food and body image. The longer eating disorders persist during adolescence, the more challenging recovery becomes and the greater the risk for chronic health problems.
Early intervention during the teenage years, when the brain is most plastic and responsive to treatment, offers the best opportunity for full recovery and normal development. Family support, professional treatment, and addressing underlying emotional and social factors are essential components of successful adolescent eating disorder recovery.
While professional support is essential for eating disorder recovery, you don't have to wait to start helping your teenager. These evidence-based strategies can provide immediate support and begin the healing process. Remember: these tools work best when combined with professional treatment for lasting recovery.
Remove Triggers and Diet Culture: Clear your home of diet books, weight loss products, and scales. Stop commenting on food choices, body shapes, or weight - both for your teenager and other family members. This includes "positive" comments about weight loss or "healthy" eating that might reinforce disordered behaviors.
Establish Regular Family Meals: Create structured meal times that happen together as a family. This isn't about forcing your teenager to eat, but about normalizing food and eating as social, nourishing experiences. Keep meals relaxed and focus on connection rather than food consumption.
Model Healthy Food Relationships: Demonstrate balanced eating, enjoyment of food, and body acceptance. Your teenager needs to see adults who have healthy, flexible relationships with food and their bodies. This means avoiding diet talk, body criticism, and rigid eating rules.
Listen Without Fixing: When your teenager shares struggles, resist the urge to immediately solve the problem or offer advice. Simple responses like "That sounds really hard" or "I'm glad you told me" can be more helpful than trying to logic them out of their eating disorder thoughts.
Separate Your Teen from the Eating Disorder: Remember that the eating disorder is not your teenager's choice or identity. Statements like "The eating disorder is telling you that, but what do YOU think?" help externalize the illness and preserve your relationship.
Medical Emergency Signs: Seek immediate medical attention if your teenager has fainting, chest pain, difficulty breathing, severe dehydration, or signs of electrolyte imbalance. Don't wait - eating disorders can be medically dangerous, especially in adolescents whose bodies are still developing.
Mental Health Crisis: If your teenager expresses thoughts of self-harm, talks about not wanting to live, or engages in dangerous behaviors like severe restriction or frequent purging, seek professional help immediately. Crisis resources are available 24/7 for families in emergency situations.
Educate Yourself: Learn about eating disorders from reputable sources to understand what your teenager is experiencing. Knowledge helps you respond appropriately and reduces your own anxiety about the situation.
Remember: you cannot "fix" your teenager's eating disorder through willpower, love, or logical arguments. But you can provide the consistent, non-judgmental support they need while professional treatment addresses the underlying issues that drive disordered eating behaviors.
There's hope beyond the eating disorder. While recovery takes time, commitment, and professional support, the vast majority of teenagers can recover fully and develop healthy relationships with food, their bodies, and their lives. Recovery doesn't just mean stopping eating disorder behaviors - it means reclaiming joy, spontaneity, and genuine connection with others.
Recovery isn't a perfect straight line, and it's not about becoming someone who "never thinks about food." True recovery means your teenager can eat flexibly without extreme anxiety, engage in social activities involving food, pursue their interests and relationships, and handle life's stresses without turning to eating disorder behaviors.
Many families are surprised by how much their teenager changes during recovery - not just physically, but emotionally and socially. As malnutrition resolves and eating disorder thoughts quiet down, you often see the return of your teenager's personality, humor, creativity, and ability to connect with others.
Think about the parents and teenagers you admire most - they likely demonstrate resilience without constant struggle. They enjoy food as fuel and pleasure, pursue meaningful goals, and maintain close relationships. This is possible for your teenager too, even if it's hard to imagine right now.
When you address your teenager's eating disorder with professional help, you're not just treating a mental health condition - you're giving them the tools to build a fulfilling, connected life. You're helping them develop coping strategies that will serve them throughout their adult years, and you're modeling that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Many families discover that eating disorder recovery becomes a catalyst for deeper family connection, improved communication, and greater overall well-being for everyone. Your teenager's recovery can be the beginning of a healthier, happier chapter for your entire family.
Starting therapy for your teenager's eating disorder begins with understanding your family's unique situation, your teenager's specific challenges, and the factors that contributed to the eating disorder's development. Every teen and family is different, and treatment should be tailored to your specific needs and circumstances.
We'll explore your teenager's eating disorder history, medical status, current symptoms, and family dynamics. This isn't about blame or judgment - it's about understanding the full picture so we can develop the most effective treatment plan. We'll also discuss your goals for recovery and what success looks like for your family.
For parents, we'll address your concerns, fears, and questions about the eating disorder. Many parents feel overwhelmed, guilty, or confused about how to help their teenager. These feelings are normal, and therapy provides education and support for the entire family throughout the recovery process.
Early sessions often focus on immediate safety and stabilization - ensuring your teenager is medically stable and beginning to interrupt dangerous eating disorder behaviors. We work closely with medical providers and use evidence-based approaches like Family-Based Treatment when appropriate.
As treatment progresses, we address the underlying factors that contribute to the eating disorder - perfectionism, anxiety, trauma, identity issues, or family dynamics. We work at your family's pace, always prioritizing your teenager's safety and well-being while building toward lasting recovery.
Many families find evening or weekend sessions work well with their teenager's school schedule and family commitments. We'll find a schedule that supports consistent attendance and engagement in the recovery process.
Hi, I'm Jesse Cynamon, a Registered Psychotherapist (CRPO #10979) who specializes in helping teenagers and families navigate eating disorder recovery throughout Ontario. I understand that eating disorders in adolescence aren't just about food - they're complex responses to emotional pain, family dynamics, social pressures, and the challenges of growing up in today's world.
I work with families from Toronto, Ottawa, Hamilton, London, and across Ontario who are dealing with anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, and other forms of disordered eating. I understand that watching your teenager struggle with an eating disorder can feel terrifying, overwhelming, and isolating for the entire family.
My approach combines evidence-based treatments like Family-Based Treatment (FBT) with genuine understanding that every teenager and family is unique. Recovery isn't about following a rigid protocol - it's about finding the approaches that work for your teenager while supporting your entire family through the healing process.
I believe that parents are often their teenager's greatest resource in eating disorder recovery, not the cause of the problem. My role is to educate, support, and empower families to help their teenagers reclaim their lives from eating disorders while rebuilding healthy family relationships.
I offer virtual sessions throughout Ontario with flexible scheduling to accommodate your family's needs. Because eating disorder recovery requires consistent support, and sometimes the most important work happens outside traditional office hours.
Research shows virtual therapy is highly effective for eating disorder treatment when combined with family involvement. Virtual sessions actually offer unique advantages: real-time support during meal times, immediate crisis intervention, and the ability to work in the environment where eating actually occurs. Many families find virtual therapy more accessible and less intimidating for their teenagers.
Consider professional help if you notice significant weight changes, obsessive thoughts about food or body image, avoidance of social eating situations, mood changes around meals, physical symptoms like fatigue or hair loss, or any behaviors that interfere with your teenager's normal activities. Trust your instincts - if you're concerned, it's worth getting a professional assessment.
Resistance to treatment is common because eating disorders often feel protective to teenagers. This is where family-based approaches are particularly helpful - parents can provide the structure and support needed while teenagers gradually develop their own motivation for recovery. Resistance doesn't mean your teenager can't recover - it means they need more support, not less.
Parents play a crucial role in teen eating disorder recovery. Research shows that family involvement significantly improves outcomes. This doesn't mean parents caused the eating disorder - it means you're often your teenager's best resource for recovery. Treatment includes education, support, and specific strategies for helping your teenager heal while maintaining family relationships.
Recovery timelines vary widely depending on the type and severity of the eating disorder, how early treatment begins, and individual factors. Many teenagers see significant improvement within months of starting treatment, but full recovery often takes 1-2 years of consistent support. Early intervention typically leads to faster and more complete recovery.
Not all eating disorder treatment is the same. Many therapists lack specialized training in adolescent eating disorders or evidence-based family approaches. Previous unsuccessful treatment doesn't mean your teenager can't recover - it may mean you need a different approach. Specialized eating disorder treatment has much higher success rates than general therapy.
Your teenager's eating disorder doesn't have to define their future. With proper treatment, the vast majority of teenagers recover fully and go on to live healthy, fulfilling lives. The eating disorder might feel all-consuming right now, but recovery is not only possible - it's probable with the right support.
The hardest part for most parents is making that first call. Once you do, you've already started changing the trajectory for your entire family. Whether you're ready to begin treatment or just want to understand your options, professional support is available when you're ready.
Your teenager deserves to experience life without the constant struggle of an eating disorder. They deserve to enjoy food, feel comfortable in their body, and pursue their dreams without this burden. Take the first step toward the future your family wants.
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