Why January Hits Different
January in Ontario is a perfect storm for feeling low. The excitement of the holidays is gone. The structure of back-to-work hits hard. And the weather? Let's just say nobody moves to Ontario for the January sunshine.
Here's what I've seen: most people who reach out in January aren't broken. They're dealing with a combination of factors that would drag anyone down:
- Less daylight – Ontario gets roughly 9 hours of daylight in January. Your body notices.
- Financial stress – Holiday spending catches up. The bills arrive. Benefits might have reset.
- Post-holiday letdown – You went from events and gatherings to... nothing. The contrast is jarring.
- Back-to-work pressure – New year, new targets, same overwhelm.
- Weather isolation – It's cold. It's icy. Staying home feels easier than going out.
None of this means something is wrong with you. It means you're human, living through an objectively difficult month.
January Blues vs. Something More Serious
There's a difference between feeling down in January and clinical depression or Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). The question isn't whether you feel bad. It's how bad, and for how long.
Typical January Blues
- Low energy, but you can still function
- Less motivation, but you push through
- Feeling "blah" that lifts within 2-3 weeks
- Some good days mixed in with harder ones
Signs It Might Be More
- Symptoms lasting more than 2-3 weeks
- Difficulty completing daily tasks (work, self-care)
- Withdrawing from everyone, not just some events
- Significant changes in sleep (too much or too little)
- Feeling hopeless or like things won't get better
- Thoughts of self-harm (if this is you, please call 988)
You don't need to wait until things are severe to reach out. Therapy can help whether you're dealing with temporary January blues or something that's been building for months.
What Actually Helps
I'm not going to tell you to "just get outside more" or "practice gratitude." You've heard that. Here's what I've seen make a real difference:
For Mild January Blues
- Light exposure – A light therapy box (10,000 lux) for 20-30 minutes in the morning. Not a gimmick. Research backs this up.
- One social connection – Not a big event. One coffee with one person. Lower the bar.
- Small goals – Forget resolutions. Pick one tiny thing that would make tomorrow slightly better.
- Protect your sleep – Winter makes you want to sleep more. That's okay. Consistency matters more than hours.
When to Consider Therapy
If the strategies above aren't moving the needle, or you recognize yourself in the "signs it might be more" list, therapy is worth exploring. I work with a lot of people who initially thought their January slump would pass on its own. Sometimes it does. Sometimes it doesn't.
In therapy, we can:
- Figure out what's actually driving your mood (sometimes it's not what you think)
- Build practical tools that work for your actual life, not generic advice
- Address patterns that show up every winter (or every stressful period)
- Create a plan for getting through the rest of winter
Why Virtual Therapy Makes Sense in Winter
Here's the thing about January in Ontario: getting anywhere is a hassle. It's cold, it's dark by the time you leave work, and the roads are unpredictable. Virtual therapy removes all of that.
You can do a session from your couch, in your home, without dealing with parking or weather. For something that's supposed to help you feel better, that matters. Research shows virtual therapy is just as effective as in-person for depression and anxiety.
I offer virtual therapy across Ontario. Whether you're in Toronto, Ottawa, or a smaller town where therapists are harder to find, you can access support without leaving your house.
Not Sure If Therapy Is Right for You?
Book a free 15-minute call. We'll talk about what's going on and figure out if working together makes sense. No pressure, no commitment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the January blues?
The January blues refer to feelings of low mood, fatigue, and lack of motivation that commonly occur after the holidays. Contributing factors include post-holiday letdown, return-to-work stress, financial strain from holiday spending, cold weather, and reduced daylight hours in Ontario.
How long do January blues typically last?
For most people, January blues are temporary and lift within a few weeks as routines stabilize. If low mood persists beyond 2-3 weeks, intensifies, or significantly impacts daily functioning, it may indicate something more serious like Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) or depression.
What's the difference between January blues and SAD?
January blues are typically mild, temporary, and don't significantly disrupt daily life. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is a clinical diagnosis involving persistent symptoms like severe fatigue, oversleeping, weight changes, difficulty concentrating, and feelings of hopelessness that last through winter months.
When should I consider therapy for winter mood issues?
Consider reaching out to a therapist if your low mood lasts more than 2-3 weeks, you're struggling to complete daily tasks, you're withdrawing from people or activities, sleep or appetite has significantly changed, or you're having thoughts of hopelessness. Therapy can help whether symptoms are mild or severe.
Does virtual therapy work for seasonal depression?
Yes, research shows that virtual therapy is as effective as in-person therapy for depression and anxiety, including seasonal patterns. Virtual therapy also removes barriers like winter driving conditions and makes it easier to attend sessions consistently during dark, cold months in Ontario.
Is therapy covered by insurance in Ontario?
Many Ontario employer benefit plans cover sessions with Registered Psychotherapists (CRPO). Check your benefits for coverage amounts and whether you need a referral. NextStep Therapy provides insurance receipts for all sessions that can be submitted for reimbursement.
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